The Divorce Readiness Starter Kit helps you organize your finances before legal conversations begin.
The Divorce Readiness Starter Kit helps you organize your finances before legal conversations begin.
Alex and Pat, a newly separated couple, were recommended to me, as they both wanted a simple and affordable separation, and neither wanted to go to court, or involve lawyers.
We met by phone and zoom, discussed what they wanted to do with the home, pension and their small nest egg for emergencies. We explored what was feasible, what was fair, figured out spousal support based on the need for financial stability, not on entitlement. We flushed out real numbers, real scenarios, and they reached a settlement, finalized all financial negotiations and closed on the mortgage, through a warm referral to our mortgage lender, all within 2 weeks.
We can do that for you too.
What other customers had to say about our service.
“Working with Wanda and We Decide™ was the most empowering part of my divorce. For the first time, I understood my finances clearly and had everything organized before meeting with my attorney, and that alone saved me thousands in legal fees. Wanda helped me feel confident, prepared, and strong in every negotiation. I finally felt in control of my future.”
— Deborah B.
Settle the Nest™ is your urgent-response session for high-pressure moments when lawyers and courts can’t help quickly enough. In one focused meeting, you get your real numbers, your true housing options, and clear next steps based on financial truth — not panic. You’re supported by Wanda and the We Decide™ community, including certified divorce coaches, divorce lending experts, realtors, mediators, insurance and estate planners, accountants, and financial advisors. It’s rapid, trauma-informed, holistic support that stabilizes you before decisions escalate or costly mistakes happen. Clarity, safety, and the right professionals — all when you need them most.
Our services includes a focused session to understand your full financial picture,
your buy/sell and housing options,
and what’s truly possible before you engage a lawyer.
Perfect for employees who need to complete financial disclosure,
can’t afford legal prep fees,
or want clear, grounded numbers before making any major decisions —
with after-hours email and weekend support included.
Interested in learning how you can become a Referral Partner? Book an exploratory meeting with me so we can discuss!
Even in the hardest moments, the right information can change everything.
You are not alone—there is a safe place to turn, and support you can trust.
I built We Decide™ during the hardest years of my life — years when I couldn’t walk, when the systems meant to help me failed, and when I realized that most people are left to navigate life’s biggest transitions completely unprepared.
Through rebuilding my own life, I learned something the divorce system never teaches:
clarity isn’t optional — it’s survival.
As a Divorce Financial Analyst and the creator of the Divorce Readiness Starter Kit™, the Stability Bundle™, and the Ultimate Divorce Financial Toolkit™, I’ve spent more than a decade designing what the system was missing:
financial clarity before legal fees, before conflict, and before the chaos begins.
We Decide™ exists because no one should enter divorce blind, overwhelmed, or at the mercy of a system they don’t understand.
Here, you won’t find theory or judgment — you’ll find the real tools I needed myself: simple truth, trauma-informed guidance, practical steps, and a clear path forward.
You deserve to feel steady, informed, and in control from the very beginning.
And together — we decide what your future looks like.
